From The Freedom in Leaving

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Essay · October 25, 2026

Zoom Call TODAY in in less than 30 min. (EST) 3PM | (PST) 12 PM

Zoom Call TODAY in in less than 30 min. (EST) 3PM | (PST) 12 PMhttps://calendar.app.google/QdzGFBTmkxZTvsrg8Thanks for reading Letters on Leaving! Subscribe for…

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Podcast Episode · October 24, 2026

Payment Plan Video. 50% Deposit, monthly installments til Feb 1.

Payment Plan Video. 50% Deposit, monthly installments til Feb 1.Trip Itinerary:https://thefreedominleaving.com/travel/cape-town-trip/Book with 50% Deposithttps:…

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Essay · October 23, 2026

RSVP for THIS SUNDAY Zoom Call (EST) 3PM | (PST) 12PM

Click to RSVPZoom Call Invite Link: THIS coming Sunday Oct. 25, 2026 (EST) 3PM | (PST) 12PMUpcoming: Freedom Journey to Cape Town Sunday Feb. 25, 2027 - March 6…

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Freedom Journey 2027 is booking now

Essay · October 23, 2026

Freedom Journey 2027 is booking now

🏳️‍🌈 Freedom Journey 2027 is booking now.Cape Town during Pride means culture, community, sightseeing, and the chance to experience something bigger t…

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Podcast Episode · October 22, 2026

WATCH, FORWARD and JOIN US IN CAPE TOWN!!

Join us on an exhilarating 10 day, 9 night trip of Pride, Culture, Sightseeing, Amazing food, Nightlife and relocation services to Cape Town, South Africa!!Free…

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Cape Town Trip Zoom Call Sunday Meeting at (EST) 3-3:40 PM. | (PST) 12-12:40 PM | Please forward to your Friendship Circle

Essay · October 18, 2026

Cape Town Trip Zoom Call Sunday Meeting at (EST) 3-3:40 PM. | (PST) 12-12:40 PM | Please forward to your Friendship Circle

Cape Town Trip Zoom Call Sunday Meeting at (EST) 3-3:40 PM. | (PST) 12-12:40 PM | Please forward to your Friendship CircleTopic: Freedom Journey to Cape Town In…

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Cape Town Trip Zoom Call, Sunday Oct. 18 from 3-3:40PM

Essay · October 16, 2026

Cape Town Trip Zoom Call, Sunday Oct. 18 from 3-3:40PM

Elias Whitfield is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.Topic: Freedom Journey to Cape Town Information Call | Sunday Oct. 18Time: Oct 18, 2026 03:00 PM Eas…

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BOOKING IS NOW OPEN FOR CAPE TOWN PRIDE TRIP!!

Essay · October 15, 2026

BOOKING IS NOW OPEN FOR CAPE TOWN PRIDE TRIP!!

**BOOKING IS NOW OPEN**https://traveljoy.com/bookings/tkoGnhKMEC52knCpe4Ukm9AHFreedom Journey: Cape Town Pride 2027 is not just a trip. It is a shared experienc…

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You’re INVITED to Cape Town, South Africa for Pride 2027!!

Essay · October 13, 2026

You’re INVITED to Cape Town, South Africa for Pride 2027!!

https://thefreedominleaving.com/travel/cape-town-trip/ Sign up for latest news on the Cape Town trip!You’re INVITED to 10 days, 9 nights of Pride, Culture, Co…

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Freedom Journey to Cape Town, South Africa

Essay · October 12, 2026

Freedom Journey to Cape Town, South Africa

You're INVITED to 10 days, 9 nights of Pride, Culture, Community, Nightlife, Amazing food and discovery in Cape Town, South Africa!! February 25 - March 6, 2027…

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Podcast Episode · August 12, 2026

He Said I Was Too Old, Too Broke, and a Coward for Leaving America. Weeks Later, He’s Buying a Condo in Brazil.

He told me I was too old, too broke, and a coward for leaving America. Weeks later, he told me he was buying a condo in Brazil. He’s 5 years younger than me.T…

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He Said I Was Too Old, Too Broke, and a Coward for Leaving America. Weeks Later, He’s Buying a Condo in Brazil.

Essay · August 11, 2026

He Said I Was Too Old, Too Broke, and a Coward for Leaving America. Weeks Later, He’s Buying a Condo in Brazil.

Thanks for reading Letters on Leaving! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.Not only was I shouting back, but I also wanted to physically…

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The Freedom in Leaving

Podcast Episode · August 7, 2026

October 2026: Blaxit and the New Way Out in Bookstores Everywhere

The New Great Migration is on!! The book comes out in October 2026!! Find out how and why nearly 700,000 Black Americans have left already!!

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Podcast Episode · August 6, 2026

Black Gay Men: We Travel Fearless But Careful

Why Black gay men research every trip like reconnaissance for part or full time refuge from the toxicity of the United States. How race, sexuality, and safety s…

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Black Gay Men: We Travel Fearless But Careful

Essay · August 5, 2026

Black Gay Men: We Travel Fearless But Careful

One thing about gay men. We love to travel. We love to travel internationally. Call it a stereotype, but it’s my own personal experience and that of my gay fr…

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The Freedom in Leaving

Podcast Episode · August 3, 2026

Leaving America?: Your First 90 days do this!

Congratulations on relocating from the United States to the country of your choice. Here’s what to do in the first 90 days of your move. Some of it you can do…

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Podcast Episode · July 29, 2026

Blaxit: The New Great Migration Everywhere

There’s a restlessness that lives inside Black America. It’s been there before. Between 1910 and 1970, The Great Migration happened when 6 million Black Ame…

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Podcast Episode · July 28, 2026

While Ghana, Nigeria, and Uganda Make Us a Crime, South Africa Gets Ready to Host the World's Pride

It’s sad to say that out of the 54 countries on the continent of Africa, there’s really only one I feel comfortable living and thriving in as a Black Gay ma…

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Podcast Episode · July 28, 2026

Are Black Americans Expats Safe in South Africa??

My partner and I are in the middle of emigrating from the US to South Africa. So we’ve had to face the question head on: is South Africa safe for Black expats…

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Podcast Episode · July 27, 2026

Are South Africans Really Evil, Xenophobic the Way Media Paint Them?

The headlines are horrible. The protests violent. The looting and deaths very real. No need to sugarcoat it. The South African xenophobic attacks spanning the M…

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